tcp: improve consistency of SYN-cache handling

Originally, a SYN-cache entry was always allocated and later freed,
when not needed anymore. Then the allocation was avoided, when no
SYN-cache entry was needed, and a copy on the stack was used.
But the logic regarding freeing was not updated.
This patch doesn't re-check conditions (which may have changed) when
deciding to insert or free the entry, but uses the result of
the earlier check.
This simplifies the code and improves also consistency.

Reviewed by: glebius
Sponsored by: Netflix, Inc.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D46410

(cherry picked from commit e41364711ca3f7e214f9607ebedf62e03e51633d)