Either _ILP32 or _LP64 must be defined

For some arm, powerpc, and sparc platforms it was possible that
neither _ILP32 of _LP64 would be defined. Update the isa_defs.h
header to explicitly set these macros and generate a compile error
in the case neither are defined.

Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Chunwei Chen <tuxoko@gmail.com>
Closes #4048