MFC r368649 / 3fd989da by kib: amd64 pmap: fix PCID mode invalidations

r368649 fixed a regression in r362031 that was MFC-ed to stable/12 as
a part of r362572. That commit reordered IPI send and local TLB flush in
TLB invalidations.

Without this fix we've been seeing problems with stale memory content
where changes done under a mutex were not immediately observed by
another thread after taking the same mutex. Those inconsistenices were
correlated to copy-on-write faults for pages contaning the data.

The change needed some adaptations as I elected to skip two significant
intermediate changes:

• r363195 / dc43978a, amd64: allow parallel shootdown IPIs
• r363311 / 3ec7e169, amd64 pmap: microoptimize local shootdowns for PCID PTI configurations

Reviewed by: kib
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D33413

(cherry picked from commit 1820ca2154611d6f27ce5a5fdd561a16ac54fdd8)

Approved by: so
Errata: FreeBSD-EN-22:04.pcid