Make locking assertions for VOP_FSYNC() and VOP_FDATASYNC() more correct
For devfs vnodes, it is fine to not lock vnodes for VOP_FSYNC().
Otherwise vnode must be locked exclusively, except for MNT_SHARED_WRITES()
where the shared lock is enough.
Reported and tested by: pho
Reviewed by: markj
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 1 week
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D32761