Do not single-thread itself when the process single-threaded some another process

Since both self single-threading and remote single-threading rely on
suspending the thread doing thread_single(), it cannot be mixed: thread
doing thread_suspend_switch() might be subject to thread_suspend_one()
and vice versa.

In collaboration with: pho
Reviewed by: markj
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 2 weeks
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D35310