EVFILT_TIMER: intialize stop timer list in type-stable proc init, instead of fork
Since kqueue timer may exist after the process that created it exited
(same scenario with rfork(2) as in PR 275286), make the tailq
p_kqtim_stop accessed by filt_timerdetach() type-stable.
Noted and reviewed by: markj
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 1 week
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D42777