sctp: Release the socket reference when detaching an association

[markj]

Summary

Later in sctp_free_assoc(), when we clean up chunk lists,
sctp_free_spbufspace() is used to reset the byte count in the socket
send buffer. However, if the PCB is going away, the socket may already
have been detached from the PCB, in which case this becomes a use-after
free. Clear the socket reference from the association before detaching
it from the PCB, if the PCB has already lost its socket reference.