Make target features check work with ctor and dtor-

The problem was reported in PR45468, applying target features to an
always_inline constructor/destructor runs afoul of GlobalDecl
construction assert when checking for target-feature compatibility.

The core problem is fixed by using the version of the check that
takes a FunctionDecl rather than the GlobalDecl. However, while
writing the test, I discovered that source locations weren't properly
set for this check on ctors/dtors. This patch also fixes constructors
and CALLED destructors.

Unfortunately, it doesn't seem too possible to get a meaningful
source location for a 'cleanup' destructor, so those are still
'frontend' level errors unfortunately. A fixme was added to the test
to cover that situation.