Reinstate raw receive check when truncating

This patch re-adds a check that was removed in 369aa50. The check
confirms that a raw receive is not occuring before truncating an
object's dn_maxblkid. At the time, it was believed that all cases
that would hit this code path would be handled in other places,
but that was not the case.

Reviewed-by: Matt Ahrens <mahrens@delphix.com>
Reviewed-by: Paul Dagnelie <pcd@delphix.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Tom Caputi <tcaputi@datto.com>
Closes #8852
Closes #8857