ixl(4): Add ability to control link state on ifconfig down

Add sysctl link_active_on_if_down, which allows user to control
if interface is kept in active state when it is brought
down with ifconfig. Set it to enabled by default to preserve
backwards compatibility.

Reviewed by: erj
Tested by: gowtham.kumar.ks@intel.com
Approved by: re (gjb)
Sponsored by: Intel Corporation
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D28028

(cherry picked from commit 21802a127d83e8a8c721d69b697e7ddb223d7797)
(cherry picked from commit 2b94bda05a6d43e89c4a785c0f1cd569a41cb200)