Fix znode group permission different from acl mask

Zp->z_mode is set at the same time inode->i_mode
is being changed. This has the effect of keeping both
in sync without relying on zfs_znode_update_vfs.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: yanping.gao <yanping.gao@xtaotech.com>
Closes #13581