tcp: clear all TCP timers in tcp_timer_stop() when in callout

When a TCP callout decides to disable self, e.g. tcp_timer_2msl() calling
tcp_close(), we must also clear all other possible timers. Otherwise,
upon return, the callout would be scheduled again in tcp_timer_enter().

Revert 57e27ff07aff, which was a temporary partial revert of otherwise
correct 62d47d73b7eb, that exposed the problem being fixed now. Add an
extra assertion in tcp_timer_enter() to check we aren't arming callout for
a closed connection.

Reviewed by: rscheff