krpc: Acquire ref count of CLIENT for backchannel use

Michael Dexter <editor@callfortesting.org> reported
a crash in FreeNAS, where the first argument to
clnt_bck_svccall() was no longer valid.
This argument is a pointer to the callback CLIENT
structure, which is free'd when the associated
NFSv4 ClientID is free'd.

This appears to have occurred because a callback
reply was still in the socket receive queue when
the CLIENT structure was free'd.

This patch acquires a reference count on the CLIENT
that is not CLNT_RELEASE()'d until the socket structure
is destroyed. This should guarantee that the CLIENT
structure is still valid when clnt_bck_svccall() is called.
It also adds a check for closed or closing to
clnt_bck_svccall() so that it will not process the callback
RPC reply message after the ClientID is free'd.

Comments by: mav
MFC after: 2 weeks
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D30153