Fix console progress reporting for recursive send

After commit 19d3961, progress reporting (-v) with replication flag
enabled does not report the progress on the console. This commit
fixes the issue by updating the logic to check for pa->progress
instead of pa_verbosity in send_progress_thread().

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Signed-off-by: Ameer Hamza <ahamza@ixsystems.com>
Closes #14448