tcp_hpts: move HPTS related fields from inpcb to tcpcb

This makes inpcb lighter and allows future cache line optimizations
of tcpcb. The reason why HPTS originally used inpcb is the compressed
TIME-WAIT state (see 0d7445193ab), that used to free a tcpcb, while the
associated connection is still on the HPTS ring.

Reviewed by: rrs
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D39697