OpenSSL: Add support for Chacha20-Poly1305 to kernel TLS on FreeBSD.

FreeBSD's kernel TLS supports Chacha20 for both TLS 1.2 and TLS 1.3.

NB: This commit has not yet been merged upstream as it is deemed a new
feature and did not make the feature freeze cutoff for OpenSSL 3.0.

Reviewed by: jkim
Sponsored by: Netflix
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D31443

(cherry picked from commit 6372fd253e3266c6eb271f49159f1632d527c9bd)