sound: Handle unavailable devices in various OSS IOCTLs

mixer(8)'s -a option is used to print information about all mixer
devices in the system. To do this, it loops from 0 to
mixer_get_nmixers(), and tries to open "/dev/mixer%d". However, this
approach doesn't work when there are disabled/unregistered mixers in the
system, or when an audio device simply doesn't have a mixer.

mixer_get_nmixers() calls SNDCTL_SYSINFO and returns
oss_sysinfo->nummixers, whose value is the number of currently _enabled_
mixers only. Taking the bug report mentioned below (277615) as an
example, suppose a system with 8 mixer devices total, but 3 of them are
either disabled or non-existent, which means they will not show up under
/dev, meaning we have 5 enabled mixer devices, which is also what the
value of oss_sysinfo->nummixers will be. What mixer(8) will do is loop
from 0 to 5 (instead of 8), and start calling mixer_open() on
/dev/mixer0, up to /dev/mixer4, and as is expected, the first call will
fail right away, hence the error shown in the bug report.

To fix this, modify oss_sysinfo->nummixers to hold the value of the
maximum unit in the system, which, although not necessarily "correct",
is more intuitive for applications that will want to use this value to
loop through all mixer devices.

Additionally, notify applications that a device is
unavailable/unregistered instead of skipping it. The current
implementations of SNDCTL_AUDIOINFO, SNDCTL_MIXERINFO and
SNDCTL_CARDINFO break applications that expect to get information about
a device that is skipped. Related discussion can be found here:
https://reviews.freebsd.org/D45135#1029526

It has to be noted, that other applications, apart from mixer(8), suffer
from this.

PR: 277615
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 1 day
Reviewed by: dev_submerge.ch
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D45256

(cherry picked from commit 5d980fadf73df64a1e0eda40a93170ed76ce6f14)