Explicitly include SPL compat headers

Inclusion of SPL compatibility headers was moved out of the public
header sys/types.h to avoid conflicts with external packages. Include a
few compatiblity headers explicitly to cope with that change. Also,
sort some linux-specific inclusions alphabetically.

Signed-off-by: Ned Bass <bass6@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #2898