Wait for txg sync if the last DRR_FREEOBJECTS might result in a hole

If we receive a DRR_FREEOBJECTS as the first entry in an object range,
this might end up producing a hole if the freed objects were the
only existing objects in the block.

If the txg starts syncing before we've processed any following
DRR_OBJECT records, this leads to a possible race where the backing
arc_buf_t gets its psize set to 0 in the arc_write_ready() callback
while still being referenced from a dirty record in the open txg.

To prevent this, we insert a txg_wait_synced call if the first
record in the range was a DRR_FREEOBJECTS that actually
resulted in one or more freed objects.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: David Hedberg <david.hedberg@findity.com>
Sponsored by: Findity AB
Closes #11893
Closes #14358