growfs: allow operation on RW-mounted filesystems

growfs supports growing mounted filesystems (writes are temporarily
suspended while the grow happens). Drop the check for fs_clean == 0
to restore this case. Leave fs_flags check for FS_UNCLEAN or
FS_NEEDSFSCK which represent the state of the filesystem when it was
mounted, and fsck should be run first if they are set.

PR: 253754
Reviewed by: mckusick
Approved by: re (gjb)
Fixes: 6eb925f8450f ("Filesystem utilities that modify the...")
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D29021

(cherry picked from commit 0dcde5cc12744e5188300711a8829e5e6a9cd0de)
(cherry picked from commit b5920128c7ebcf5060605928263a54b31b317993)