OpenZFS 7003 - zap_lockdir() should tag hold

zap_lockdir() / zap_unlockdir() should take a "void *tag" argument which
tags the hold on the zap. This will help diagnose programming errors
which misuse the hold on the ZAP.

Sponsored by: Intel Corp.

Signed-off-by: Matthew Ahrens <mahrens@delphix.com>
Signed-off-by: Pavel Zakharov <pavel.zakha@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>

OpenZFS-issue: https://www.illumos.org/issues/7003
OpenZFS-commit: https://github.com/openzfs/openzfs/pull/108
Closes #4972