Linux 4.4 compat: xattr operations takes xattr_handler

The xattr_hander->{list,get,set} were changed to take a xattr_handler,
and handler_flags argument was removed and should be accessed by
handler->flags.

Signed-off-by: Chunwei Chen <david.chen@osnexus.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Issue #4021