pf: PFRULE_REFS should not be user-visible
Split the PFRULE_REFS flag from the rule_flag field. PFRULE_REFS is a
kernel-internal flag and should not be exposed to or read from
userspace.
MFC after: 4 weeks
Sponsored by: Rubicon Communications, LLC ("Netgate")
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D29778