Convert enum zio_flag to uint64_t

We ran out of space in enum zio_flag for additional flags. Rather than
introduce enum zio_flag2 and then modify a bunch of functions to take a
second flags variable, we expand the type to 64 bits via `typedef
uint64_t zio_flag_t`.

Reviewed-by: Allan Jude <allan@klarasystems.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Richard Yao <richard.yao@klarasystems.com>
Signed-off-by: Allan Jude <allan@klarasystems.com>
Co-authored-by: Richard Yao <richard.yao@klarasystems.com>
Closes #14086