Fix zfs_dirty_data_max overflow on 32-bit

On 32 bit, the calculation of zfs_dirty_data_max from phymem will overflow,
causing it to be smaller than zfs_dirty_data_sync, and will cause txg being
delayed while no one write to disk. The end result is horrendous write speed.

On 4G ram 32-bit VM, before this patch, simple dd results in ~7MB/s. Now it
can reach speed on par with 64-bit VM.

Signed-off-by: Chunwei Chen <tuxoko@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #3973