IfAPI: Explicitly include <net/if_private.h> in netstack
Summary:
In preparation of making if_t completely opaque outside of the netstack,
explicitly include the header. <net/if_var.h> will stop including the
header in the future.
Sponsored by: Juniper Networks, Inc.
Reviewed by: glebius, melifaro
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D38200