Refactor inode_owner_or_capable() autotools check

We need inode_owner_or_capable() for ZFS file attributes in addition to
xattrs, so it should go into its own file. This moves it into its own
file and changes it to be more comprehensive. It will now fail if no
known good API is detected.

Signed-off-by: Richard Yao <ryao@gentoo.org>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Issue #1691