pf: backport OpenBSD syntax of "scrub" option for "match" and "pass" rules

Introduce the OpenBSD syntax of "scrub" option for "match" and "pass"
rules and the "set reassemble" flag. The patch is backward-compatible,
pf.conf can be still written in FreeBSD-style.

Obtained from: OpenBSD
MFC after: never
Sponsored by: InnoGames GmbH
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D38025