Disable normalization implicitly when setting "utf8only=off"

When a parent dataset has normalization set to any value other than
"none", and a file system is created with the property "utf8only=off",
implicitly also set "normalization=none" instead of overriding the
desire for a non-UTF8 enforcing file system.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Mike Swanson <mikeonthecomputer@gmail.com>
Closes #11892
Closes #12038