KTLS: Enable KTLS for receiving as well in TLS 1.3

This removes a guard condition that prevents KTLS being enabled for
receiving in TLS 1.3. Use the correct sequence number and BIO for
receive vs transmit offload.

Obtained from: OpenSSL commit 7c78932b9a4330fb7c8db72b3fb37cbff1401f8b

(cherry picked from commit 6ed16d17333c5b1895aff35ddc1d46834f53a9eb)