LinuxKPI: 802.11: cleanup lsta better

This changes cleans up lsta from the VIF station list as well as
deals with freeing the lsta itself so it is not leaked.

lkpi_iv_update_bss() makes this more complicated than it should be
as we ties more sta state (incl. drv/fw) to the node that net80211
does not know about. There is more work to be done detangling this
now that is better understood.

(cherry picked from commit e24e8103e0e2140751a1b2baf7b68725ca20aaa2)