BRT: Don't call brt_pending_remove() on holes/embedded

We are doing exactly the same checks around all brt_pending_add().

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Pawel Jakub Dawidek <pjd@FreeBSD.org>
Reviewed-by: Brian Atkinson <batkinson@lanl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Alexander Motin <mav@FreeBSD.org>
Sponsored by: iXsystems, Inc.
Closes #16740