sysctl(9): Enable vnet sysctl variables to be loader tunable

Complete phase two of 3da1cf1e88f8.

In 3da1cf1e88f8, the meaning of the flag CTLFLAG_TUN is extended to
automatically check if there is a kernel environment variable which
shall initialize the SYSCTL during early boot. It works for all SYSCTL
types both statically and dynamically created ones, except for the
SYSCTLs which belong to VNETs.

This change extends the meaning further, to allow it also works for
the SYSCTLs which belong to VNETs. A typical usage is

VNET_DEFINE_STATIC(int, foo) = 0;
SYSCTL_INT(_net, OID_AUTO, foo, CTLFLAG_RWTUN | CTLFLAG_VNET,
    &VNET_NAME(foo), 0, "Description of the foo loader tunable");

Note that the implementation has a limitation. It behaves the same way
as that of non-vnet loader tunables. That is, after the kernel or modules
being initialized, any changes (e.g. via kenv) to kernel environment
variable will not affect the corresponding vnet variable of subsequently
created VNETs. To overcome it, we can use TUNABLE_XXX_FETCH to fetch
the kernel environment variable into those vnet variables during vnet
constructing.

This change will fix the following SYSCTLs those belong to VNETs and
have CTLFLAG_TUN flag:

net.add_addr_allfibs
net.bpf.optimize_writers
net.inet.tcp.fastopen.ccache_buckets
net.link.bridge.inherit_mac
net.link.bridge.ipfw_arp
net.link.bridge.log_stp
net.link.bridge.pfil_bridge
net.link.bridge.pfil_local_phys
net.link.bridge.pfil_member
net.link.bridge.pfil_onlyip
net.link.lagg.default_use_flowid
net.link.lagg.default_use_numa
net.link.lagg.default_flowid_shift
net.link.lagg.lacp.debug
net.link.lagg.lacp.default_strict_mode

Although the following vnet SYSCTLs have CTLFLAG_TUN flag, theirs
values are re-fetched via TUNABLE_XXX_FETCH, thus are not affected
by this change.

net.inet.ip.reass_hashsize
net.inet.tcp.hostcache.cachelimit
net.inet.tcp.hostcache.hashsize
net.inet.tcp.hostcache.bucketlimit
net.inet.tcp.syncache.bucketlimit
net.inet.tcp.syncache.cachelimit
net.inet.tcp.syncache.hashsize
net.key.spdcache.maxentries
net.key.spdcache.threshold

In memoriam: hselasky
Discussed with: hselasky, glebius
Fixes: 3da1cf1e88f8 Extend the meaning of the CTLFLAG_TUN flag ...
MFC after: 2 weeks
Relnotes: yes
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D39638