cxgbe tom: Free pending iSCSI mbufs on connection shutdown.

If an iSCSI connection is shutdown abruptly (e.g. by a RST from the
peer), pending iSCSI PDUs and page pod work requests can be in the
ulp_pduq when the final CPL is received indicating the death of the
connection.

Reported by: Jithesh Arakkan @ Chelsio

(cherry picked from commit 677cb9722a64d3f944d3e374e0ef1bb0e45644b5)