Linux 5.3 compat: rw_semaphore owner

Commit https://github.com/torvalds/linux/commit/94a9717b updated the
rwsem's owner field to contain additional flags describing the rwsem's
state. Rather then update the wrappers to mask out these bits, the
code no longer relies on the owner stored by the kernel. This does
increase the size of a krwlock_t but it makes the implementation
less sensitive to future kernel changes.

Reviewed-by: Tony Hutter <hutter2@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Tomohiro Kusumi <kusumi.tomohiro@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #9029