kqueue: Add EV_KEEPUDATA flag
When this flag is set, operations that update an existing kevent will
not change the udata field. This can be used to NOTE_TRIGGER or
EV_{EN,DIS}ABLE events without overwriting the stashed pointer.
Reviewed by: Domagoj Stolfa <domagoj.stolfa@gmail.com>
Obtained from: CheriBSD
Sponsored by: Microsoft
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D30286