multimedia/kodi: Unbreak package, failing due to missing libdvdcss

libdvdcss, which is no longer packaged for legal reasons, was a
default-on OPTION. Package builds were succeeding, but the binary
complained of missing libraries. This update makes libdvdcss
default-off and adds a pkg-message about building from source for
those who need it encrypted DVD support.

PR: 260490
Reported by: ravens10@tutanota.com
MFH: 2022Q1

(cherry picked from commit 94753e8d69e37978bab386c456020fedd7bb089d)