ports-mgmt/pkg-devel: update to 1.17.99.3

• make pkg/audit.h C++ friendly
• fix build with libressl
• Enable aarch64 support for linux
• plenty of portability fixes for linux with musl libc
• autoremove: respect -q
• version: report an error if the provided INDEX file does not exist
• periodic: allow users so provide an ignore list of jails
• periodic: reduce audit script verbosity
• arch: to not consider .h as potentially arch specific
• query: allow -e to be used with other filter options
• register: implement a -N to disable registration in the database
• rework internal hash tables
• plenty of memory leak fixed
• fetch; do not count cached files as files to be fetched