devel/llvm16: add a lite FLAVOR

The lite flavor is for when you just need a FreeBSD compiler (e.g., in
CI). By default it includes CLANG and LLD as well as backends required
for FreeBSD and FreeBSD ports (BE_NATIVE, BE_AMDGPU, and BE_WASM).

The lite install is ~350GiB on amd64 vs ~1.9GiB for default and it has
only a single dependency (zstandard). (The goal was no dependencies,
but libzstd is a private lib in base.)

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