net80211: simplify code after STA/AP VAPs traffic hang fix

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Summary

Combine the comment and double-unsetting of OACTIVE into a single case
after e8de31caceaa36caf5d7b4355072f148e2433b82.
This saves the question of why we do it twice--once right before and
one more time right after the state change check.
Also move the XXX comment about kicking the queue up to where it seems
better suited now.

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MFC after: 3 days

Test Plan

Note: git diff does this one not logically.